Female Liberation or Promiscuity? Questions about Cuckolding

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Q. What are your feelings on cuckolding? I have come across this topic on a number of Female Domination discussion boards and web sites. I know it has something to do with a dominant wife having lovers other than her husband. Where did the term cuckolding come from and isn't this Adultery and thus a sin?

A. The words cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers and cuckolding comes from the cuckoo bird. The female cuckoo bird lays its eggs in the nests of other birds leaving them to be cared for by these other birds. The French equated this female cuckoo to a woman who is unfaithful and who "sleeps around". The husband of such a woman is know as being cuckolded or married to an unfaithful wife.

In Female Domination this term has come to mean a liberated wife who has other lovers for the sole purpose of humiliating her husband and using that humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose to drive the husband into deeper submission to her. The dominant wife claims that she is free to do whatever she pleases, including having sex with whomever she desires. The husband must be monogamous to her and must suffer the shame of being cuckolded. In Female Domination, often orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial and control of the husband accompanies cuckolding. The wife loves to have sex with another man while denying her own husband the right of having sex with her. It is a mind game and a power exchange.