Female Liberation or Promiscuity? Questions about Cuckolding

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My personal feeling is that women who use cuckolding as an excuse for cheating and being promiscuous, are hurting their marriage and risk permanent damage to their marriage. Cheating is never right and having sex with another man behind your husband's back is adultery. However, I have known women who use cuckolding as a tool and an activity to drive their husbands into deeper submission. My rule of thumb is that as long as the husband is present and agrees to watch the cuckolding take place, than it is not cheating. It can be a very powerful tool of humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose and it may unlock more of the husband's submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires.

Remember that in the New Testament, adultery is a sin of the heart. It is possible to commit adultery without ever having sex with another person. Jesus said that if you lust and your heart goes after another, then that is adultery. Likewise, it is possible to have sex with another person and not commit adultery. If the wife has sex with another man for the sole purpose of humiliating and controlling her husband and if her heart is still toward her husband, then that is not being unfaithful and it is not adultery.