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Female Liberation or Promiscuity? Questions about Cuckolding

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However, that is not what I was addressing in my response to this gentleman's story. Marriage is a covenant and a covenant is a permanent contract. The wife has the right to make the decisions in the marriage but she still must honor her commitment to the covenant. The wife has the authority over her husband but that authority does not give her the right to violate the covenant she has previously entered into. What I was addressing in Obedient Husband's story was a clear violation of the marriage covenant and he most certainly has the right to point this out to his wife.

Like I said in my response, I applaud Obedient Husband's wife for how she controls her husband and how she incorporates her Female Supremacy beliefs into her marriage. I also stated how I needed to hear her side of the story before making an honest assessment of the situation. But based on what Obedient Husband wrote, I had to in good conscience recommend that he stand up to his dominant wife long enough to make her aware of the seriousness of the situation. What she does not need from him at this time is for him to roll over and ignore her transgression. If a man is in submission to his wife but the wife has a serious gambling problem or drinking problem, it is not rebellion for him to intervene on her behalf. Submission is an expression of love and sometimes love must be tough.