Library Elise Sutton

Female Liberation or Promiscuity? Questions about Cuckolding

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If what he described is true, his wife is committing adultery by preferring another man over her husband. Adultery is not so much about sex but it is a condition of the heart. When a woman spends most of her time with her lover but denies her own husband any intimate contact, what would you call it? This is not cuckolding. Cuckolding is when a married woman has a lover (or lovers) in order to express her liberation and dominance over her husband. However, her focus must be on her husband or else it is cheating. I am not saying that she cannot have feelings for her lover, as it is next to impossible to be intimate with a man and not to develop feelings for him. But that is different from giving your heart to your lover. Show me the man that a woman primarily thinks about and spends the majority of her free time with and I will show you the man that her heart loves. At the very least, a husband is entitled to be his wife's number one. He need not be her one and only but marriage does entitle him to be her number one. Adultery is the breaking of the marriage covenant and no husband has to accept that in the name of submission.