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Women In Control: Questions about Female Supremacy

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Having said that, it is also important that you maintain a submissive顺从 — willing to obey attitude toward the women in your office, be they your workplace superiors or under your supervision. Treat all the women with humility and respect. Do little things that will make their life better and thus make them better employees. Show your servitude by bringing them coffee, holding doors open for them, and carrying that heavy box of paper for them. Make sure they are not already swamped with existing work before you assign them another work related task to do and above all, treat them with the respect they deserve, be they your office superior, or your secretary, or the cleaning lady. Treat all these women with respect and display a submissive顺从 — willing to obey and servants attitude toward them all.

Outwardly, you must not be a respecter of persons in order to excel as a supervisor. But inwardly, you should always maintain a subservient and submissive顺从 — willing to obey attitude toward all women you come in contact with.

Q. Dear Elise, I wish to share with your readers the changes I have seen in my 50 years as a male. When I was as boy, my father was the boss in the house and I grew up in a very "traditional" household and so viewed females and males in this now very old fashioned way. I went to an all male school and generally males did better than females in education, so this reinforced the elevation of the male over the female in my eyes.