Real Life Stories - Entries for July 2009

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Sexually we often mutually masturbate rather than have penetrative sex which I prefer. I decide what we do at the weekend, when we visit his family and when we go out to gay clubs and he can dress as a woman. He likes to go out shopping dressed and we did this a few times but I was uncomfortable so now I just drop him off and he goes for a walk and I have a coffee in a shop. We did this on Valentine’s Day. I choose all his outfits of course – including his wig and do his make-up. He once said to me, “I’m under your thumb, aren’t I?”

I didn’t even need to reply. We don’t argue though. I’ve really found the relationship I want – and I never even knew I was looking for it. I have spanked him a couples of times over me knee but more sexual than in anger – these are things I want to develop.

If friends phone me up I can make dates without consulting him. Whereas my friends will say “I’ll ask Ian or Kevin” I just make a date. If Colin asks what’s happening I say “don’t interfere” or that he “doesn’t need to know,” and he accepts that now. I arranged for friends to come around and don’t consult with him or arrange for us to go to dinner at mum’s without consulting with him. If we go away I pack the case and decide what clothes he will wear.