Real Life Stories - Entries for March 2005

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From Sharon G:

Dear Elise, I discovered your site not too long ago, and I have needed to tell someone of our experiences, so writing to you is a pleasure and a privilege. To this point, the life that my husband and I share has been our own secret.

Peter and I have been married six years and for most of it, there was no hint of female domination or anything out of the ordinary. Then about a year ago, the two of us were watching television and there was a woman who was dressed in leather in the fashion of a dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman. She was cute, and I asked Peter what he thought of her in the outfit. He admitted she was hot. My next question was whether he thought I'd be hot in such an outfit, and that led to an awkward discussion.

Peter wasn't completely forthcoming, but the way I interpret it now, Peter's line of thinking was that the dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman outfit was "bad girl clothes" and I was a "good girl". He put a good face on that attitude, but I came away a bit upset, and not really sure why.

The issue kept returning to my mind for weeks, and eventually I went out and bought a leather outfit, which was relatively tame, but about as close to a dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman costume as I was likely to wear at the time. I sprung it on Peter, nervous about what his reaction would be. He was immediately intrigued and enthusiastic, and I did some pretend domming, which eventually led to really hot sex, and I still recall that evening with pleasure.