Real Life Stories - March 2017

Screen 24 of 44

So that is a summary of our experience as a semi-femdom女性支配 — female domination couple. Do you have any idea where we are going or any suggestions for me? Thanks for all you do.

Elise's Response:

Your story is quite common. My first comment is that you should count your blessings as you have enjoyed a wonderful marriage of 22 years. You also are blessed to have gotten to experience some aspects of FemDom女性支配 — female domination in your marriage. The shopping trips, the cuckolding fantasy and the months where you were her total servant are more than a lot of men get to experience with their wives. Just the fact that you have the type of relationship where you openly discuss your sexuality and desires with your wife sets you apart from most marriages. So you have a lot to be grateful for.

Having said that, I understand your frustration and your yearning for more domination. Since you have tasted of it, it is only natural for you to desire more. A submissive顺从 — willing to obey man that has gotten to experience the joys of submitting to the woman he loves, will not be totally satisfied within a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink and traditional relationship. That is where your attitude comes into play. You need to see that by obeying your wife and helping her around the house, you are submitting to her will and thus she is in fact dominating you. Submit to her everyday by yielding to her will and denying yourself. If you approach this with the proper attitude and outlook, it can fulfill much of your submissive顺从 — willing to obey longings.