Library Elise Sutton

Real Life Stories - Entries for July 2003

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It is obvious to me that you did push Alison too fast into this arrangement. You were far too concerned about your fantasies that you never took the time to reflect on her needs and her desires. You were able to fulfill her needs in the bedroom by orally pleasuring her but only because it also fit within your fantasies. That's Ok and there is nothing more wonderful then a win/win situation. That is what your sex life became.

However, outside of the bedroom, you pushed your wife too hard into FemDom女性支配 — female domination by telling her you wanted to be her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. I bet you did not show her the benefits before you told her this. You did not seduce her dominant nature by genuine servitude but instead, you wanted her to motivate you to serve her by trying to get her to dominate you openly. That is the wrong approach and that is why she became confused and upset.

Now here is reality for you. Alison has embraced your request to enslave you because that is how she has figured she can have her cake and eat it too. She enjoyed having sex with this other man and she wanted to come home and dominate you to measure your reaction. She saw that she had real power over you so she has decided that she can do whatever the hell she wants and you are powerless to stop her. Congratulations, you have finally succeeded in unleashing Alison's dominant nature. She loves having this power over you and now she can be a selfish Bitch who can do whatever she wants.