Working Girl: Questions about the Professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman

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Let's say that where you live it is all right to practice professional D&S or B&D; and let's say that you have the Dominant personality, the right skills, the right equipment and wardrobe, and even a place to play. There is still the issue of security. How are you going to protect yourself from a nutcase that wants sex and not domination? If you solve this problem, are you prepared to be stood up a lot? Having men make appointments then not showing up is very common in the professional Dom business. For these and other reasons, I have known a number of women who have tried their hand at being a Pro Dom, only to find out that it wasn't what they thought it would be.

Now I do not want to totally discourage you. There are hundreds of women who are able to handle these challenges and who make quite a good living doing it. Plus they really enjoy being a Pro Dom. You might be the type of woman who would be a natural. I would recommend that you hook up with an already practicing Dom. Some of these ladies are looking for reliable women to help them when they are over booked or when someone requests two Doms at one time. A Pro Dom can help to teach you the ropes (no pun intended) and show you how to handle all of the various situations that might come up. Then once you feel that you are skilled enough and ready to go out on your own; you will be much better prepared.