Working Girl: Questions about the Professional Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman

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Q. Elise, I want to dominate my husband in front of other women. Yet, I am afraid to expose our lifestyle to family and friends, and I don't want to pay $300+ to do it in front of a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman. What would you recommend?

A. Dominating your submissive顺从 — willing to obey in front of other women can be a very effective and powerful technique in drawing out more of his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. You are wise not to do it in front of family and friends. Unless, you know that one of them is also into this lifestyle. I would recommend that you do the Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman thing at least once or twice to start out. This will get you started. Then you can begin to make new friends with other dominant women.

I would recommend joining a female domination support group if you live near a large city, where one might exist. If you don't have this option, there is a new invention out there that allows like-minded people to communicate with each other. It's called the Internet and I am sure that you have access to it or you wouldn't know about me.

Use the Internet and make contacts with other F/D couples. Build a friendship by using e-mail and then call each other on the telephone. Then once you are comfortable with another dominant woman, set-up a time and a place to meet. Go out to dinner.