Real Life Stories - September 2014

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But, a 'bad' spanking is a little different. In this case, I choose when to spank him, and why. So it's not just when he's in the right mood. We couldn't do this I think unless he consented to the general idea, which he does. And if he didn't, I might decide of course to cut down or even end his 'good' spankings! So, a 'bad' spanking is a way we have of giving me a certain amount of private influence on his behavior. I do it to him when I feel that he's let me down on some way or even let himself down. It could be for a little thing or for a big thing, it depends how I feel. Like, if he's been moody or lazy for a while, I sometimes say to him something like, "Darling, I think you are due for a spanking, on my terms".