Real Life Stories - September 2014

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He used to resist this quite a lot, but over a time he's realized that it is good for our relationship if he stops trying to be in charge all the time and lets the fairer sex exert a little gentle (or quite harsh actually) discipline! The funny thing is that when I've finished he is often transformed into good (and often sexy) form from his previous mood or torpor. Maybe a hot red bottom is equivalent to a spicy curry or vigorous exercise? He knows that I do it because I love him, and just like with a naughty child he knows that it is good for him really! I also do it to him to if he's annoyed or disappointed me about something, particularly if it was avoidable; and if I don't think he's been thoughtful enough about my needs. I mean, I DO expect him to help with the dish-washing and other things around the house relatively often!

Very occasionally he has absolutely refused to accede to my request to be spanked, and this just means that when I finally do it to him I make him feel it and I choose a time when I feel he would rather not be disciplined. One evening I gave him a really hard 'bad' thrashing with our riding crop马鞭 — a short whip (which leaves great marks) just before we had to go out to an elegant dinner. He was twitching all evening, partly because his bottom hurt and partly because he was feeling sexy for me, but couldn't do anything about it.