Real Life Stories - September 2007

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I was able to convince him that our little scenarios would in no way alter my respect for him. This was not easy, but we devised a system. Each of us took on a different persona, Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner and Slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience, and opened an email account in the new name through which I could issue orders and we both could express our feelings after a session. In this way we distance our real selves from our fantasy figures, and are able to discover mutual likes and dislikes as we experiment.

As an unwritten contract we agreed that once a day on any day on the order “To the bedroom” he would stop whatever he was doing and obey me unconditionally for at least half an hour each day. He could stop the session after that time if, for example, he becomes too exhausted to meet a work deadline. In practice he never has. If he were to refuse, he grants me the power to double the time on the next occasion and to include a severe punishment caning藤条抽打 — hitting with a thin rod. Likewise, this has never been necessary.