Real Life Stories - September 2007

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The actual effect on him has been remarkable. Sometimes he can be a little irritating and childish. He may blame me for some problem, rightly or wrongly. I have learned that if I order him to the bedroom on such occasions he never refuses to go, even when he is right. Throughout our marriage we have rarely argued, and this has been noted many times by our friends. It dawned on me that this is because he has usually submitted to my will when we disagree. He has also always taken his share of responsibility in the house, although I usually do the domestic chores and he handles financial and practical matters.

My first order in any session is usually to tell him to masturbate while I get ready, since as I said, he has a problem maintaining his erection these days. Some mornings I tell him that his Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner may visit when he returns from work, which he said gives him a heightened sense of anticipation all day. I have only once used my Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner persona outside of a session. This is when we were playing a game with friends and I was on the losing side. I whispered sternly “When we get home it will be the worse for you if you win”, and his game simply fell apart.