Real Life Stories - Role Reversal: Female Domination through the Strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness

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If you keep up with the weekly discipline sessions, the strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness play and the controlling the finances, you will maintain that power advantage and that control over him that you are enjoying. You can still verbally humiliate him but you need to do it within a discipline session, within a D&S scene. I do not recommend belittling and verbally abusing a man outside of the bedroom. That usually becomes counter-productive, not to mention it does not portray proper manners from a superior and sophisticated woman such as yourself. If you have a need to verbally dominate your husband, do it within your discipline sessions.

You can even continue to cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers him as long as you go about it in the proper way. The key is that when you are disciplining him, that you find out what sort of D&S activities causes him to feel submissive顺从 — willing to obey toward you. Concentrate more on getting him to willingly go where you desire to lead him and less on forcing him there by tearing him down as a person. It sounds like he is a natural submissive顺从 — willing to obey and I suspect that he enjoys some of what you are doing to him. He is probably enjoying it more than you realize. Now you just need to focus on motivating him with what excites him about your dominance and steer away from those things that wound him emotionally. The Female Domination lifestyle must be a win/win if it is going to be a healthy and sustained relationship over a long period of time.