Becoming A Successful submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about growing as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship

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My problem, if you want to call it that, is that I tend to think about and fantasize about our lifestyle a lot more frequently than she does. I am always very aroused around her, especially when she wears leather. I can't help expressing how I feel about her and thoughts that I'm having. I think she gets tired of hearing about it all the time. She says that by constantly talking about it, that I'm trying to "control the situation." The truth of the matter is, I might not feel this way if she was more "in to the lifestyle."

I do feel bad in a way talking about it so much but it's hard to control. I want to give her so much control that I don't even masturbate anymore - I want every orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax to be at her discretion. This feels very submissive顺从 — willing to obey to me but does keep me "pent up" quite a bit. I would love some advice. What is the frequency I should be thinking about this?

I fantasize about serving my wife in leather constantly - yet she doesn't wear leather much (even though she has quite an extensive wardrobe). I fantasize so much because I love my wife dearly - is the wrong? I don't want her to think that I desire intercourse all the time, but I love it just when she teases me with some kind of D/s activity - just a little "mind candy" if you will.