Becoming A Successful submissive顺从 — willing to obey male: Questions about growing as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship

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She will eventually comment on what a great job you are doing around the house or being attentive to her needs and when she does, tell her that the last session with her when she wore leather is what is motivating you. Tell her that you feel so in love with her and so submissive顺从 — willing to obey toward her that you cannot help but to serve her. That kind of attitude will stir her dominance and she will want to play with you more frequently. But if you nag her about wearing leather and having a D&S session, she will become disheartened and she will be turned off.

You need to motivate her by showing her the benefits to a Female Domination marriage. Obviously she enjoys some D&S but you are just pushing her too hard and it is turning her off. Focus on serving her on how she likes to be served and that will provide her with the motivation she needs to don some leather and to wield the whip. Give to her what she needs and you will in return be given what you need.