A submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband's Journal

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Probably the biggest fallacy I have encountered about the submissive顺从 — willing to obey position is the idea that a man who desires to be a woman’s slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience is seeking an escape from life, seeking the easy way. Those who have leveled that charge against this lifestyle could not be more mistaken. What I have discovered is that this life requires a man to dig deep within himself for the betterment of himself, his marriage and ultimately society. This life I have chosen requires sacrifice, discipline and the setting aside of my wants and needs in order to make a woman’s life better. And I can only do this because deep down, I believe she is worthy.

The deeper I get in this lifestyle and the deeper into submission I go, the more obvious it becomes to me that women are the superior gender. Man was designed and destined to serve women and if he can achieve that place where all that matters to him is the woman’s happiness and fulfillment, he will experience an inner joy and an inner tranquility that he had no idea was available in this life. Often a great gift requires a great sacrifice. My ego and my selfishness is a barrier that gets in the way. It can be a painful process to break through that barrier and most men are not willing to make that sacrifice. But the payoff is well worth it.