Real Stories - Predominant 2011, Issue 2

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I've had him stand on all fours and set several pairs of shoes on him so he serves as a shoe rack, and I bought a gag with a serving tray attachment that holds snacks like chips or pretzels. He kneels motionless by my side as I casually and indifferently help myself to a snack whenever I like. Of course, the fun comes from taking this physically strong man and relegating him to object status and acting as if he's not really human. I'm very conscious of the fact of who he actually is - that's what makes it so fun to dehumanize him.

I encourage other women to try this with their submissive顺从 — willing to obey males - it really helps remind Allen of his inferior status. While we only pretend that he's an object, he's definitely not my equal; objectifying him reinforces the reality that I am his superior and that he is to obey and serve me.

Elise’s Response:

Cassandra, you’ve just perfectly described the psychological dynamics behind objectification. Once the woman begins to view her husband as an “it” instead of a “he”, the power of objectification is released. Of course I’m talking about those times when you are using him as an object. The rest of the time he will always be your submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband and thus a “he”.