Real Stories - Predominant 2012, Issue 3

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My only word of advice is in the future be steadfast in only sharing the details of your sexual affairs with your husband when he is in a submissive顺从 — willing to obey frame of mind during a D&S session. Had you stuck to your original plan, he probably would have entered subspace and he would have become aroused by your sexual adventure. The tease and denial挑逗后不许高潮 — arousal without allowing the climax session would have made the details of your sexual liaison pleasurable to him as his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature would have embraced it.

Never discuss such things when your hubby is experiencing inner turmoil as he wrestles with your sexual liberation. Next time, administer the discipline and corner time when you first sense his resistance and negativity. That will help put him in the proper frame of mind and then you can engage in the tease and denial挑逗后不许高潮 — arousal without allowing the climax play and then and only then should you share the details of your love life with your hubby. In the end, you want this lifestyle to be one where he is as excited about you going out on dates as you are. Best wishes!

From Cassandra T:

Hi Elise. We have been playing with male chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm for a few years. My husband is in a CB-6000 and I love to control his orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax. The chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm has greatly improved our relationship and especially my sex life. Recently I have been enamored with administering to him ruined orgasms被打断的高潮 — a climax weakened by stopping early with limited success but the other day I hit the jackpot, completely by accident.