Real Stories - October 2005

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An interesting element to the movement toward more abstinence is how it plays out with religious women. There is definitely a FemDom女性支配 — female domination element to it. Women tend to view the male orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax as more sinful than their own. I have read many accounts of how “religious” girls will reject all sexual advances from horny males but will be open to oral sex as long as they do not have to reciprocate the sexual favor. So a woman might agree to allow a man to orally pleasure her as long as he understands that he will receive nothing in return until marriage. This is vintage FemDom女性支配 — female domination, whether the woman recognizes it or not.

Another FemDom女性支配 — female domination element to abstinence is how women will use sex as a future reward to try to get a man to marry her. This is an age-old practice that women have used for millenniums. This gives the woman tremendous power over the man as his sexual frustration makes him more obedient and eager to please. Shelly tried to use this on you. The danger with this is when a man marries a woman for sex, without there being any real social or spiritual connection. There are many unhappy marriages within the Church because two people were in heat and not in love, but they married so they could morally have sex.