Q&A Forum - April 2013

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Q. Dear Elise, I'm seeking your advice on corporal punishment. My husband has appealed for a 24/7全天 — all day and every day female domination lifestyle and I’m willing to do so. We had some hard times during our marriage and I’ve learned the hard way that lenience sends him the wrong message. Hence firmness is essential to the task and I administer correction frequently. He needs it and I’ve come to love it.

However, with the amenities comes a burden. The sessions can be tiring at times and they are making him more docile than attentive. This is not what I desire, but I love my husband and I believe that this is necessary for him. Therefore, I’m looking for alternative means of punishment. Ideally something much less laborious yet still inflicts pain upon him any time I see fit. Any suggestions are welcome.

A. Do you really want to inflict pain? Or do you want to mete out temporary discomfort for the purpose of training him in order to stimulate his submission nature? There is a big difference because unless your husband is a genuine masochist, you do not want to inflict pain in a negative sense but rather in the positive sense.