Q&A Forum - April 2009 (Best of Elise)

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Have you come across this issue before? When a wife has such spell and power over her husband that she is all he can think about and he gets jealous of any lost time with her? I don't like adding stress or guilt to her life because I'm not always as sharing of any time I might get to spend with her. What suggestions do you have for husbands who become so smitten by their wife that it's borderline possessive? What advice do you have for wives who may have to deal with a husband who is so taken by her 'female power', that he wants to be with her every minute of the day? How do couples deal with this apparent 'side effect' of female dominated marriages?

A. What a contrast to most of the relationship complaints you hear in the vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink world. Usually you hear women complaining about how their husbands ignore them and take them for granted or how their husbands are more interested in sports or their golf game than they are in their marriage. Yet here you are totally dedicated to your wife and so consumed by her that you are desirous for her time and her attention. That is the result of the power and the intimacy of a female dominated marriage.

What you are experiencing is a natural byproduct of the FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship. You should desire your wife above all else. Your thoughts should be consumed by her. What you now have to learn is how to channel your passion for her into a lifestyle of serving her.