Q&A Forum - August 2008 (Best of Elise)

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I have submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires and want to submit to my wife. I introduced my wife to your site, and though my wife liked it, she is from a very conservative family and she has difficulty acting dominant toward me.

Case in point, I asked her to deny me orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax for a month. She slowly denied me for a week but she is not very strict in the denial process. Though I want her to deny me orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax, when I fail, my wife refuses to punish me.

I need your valuable suggestion on how to make my wife dominant. In what ways did you make your husband submissive顺从 — willing to obey to you? She could use the denial process and make me do all the housework for her but this should come from within herself rather than by my request. Thank you once again.

A. Thank you for the kind words about my site but I must say that your question demonstrates male selfishness and not male submission.

You want to seduce her dominance with your submission, not agitate her with your submission. You do not want to nag her about dominating you as this can be a major downer for a woman. You are not showing your wife the benefits to this lifestyle as far as she is concerned. Focus on serving her how she likes to be served and that may provide her with the motivation she needs to dominate you.