Q&A Forum - August 2010 ("Searching for Wanda" edition)

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I told Caren about your book and the part about Henry and Doris. She was very interested so I ordered a copy of your book for her. I felt it was important for her to read the book because Caren has recently been questioning whether she’s even a Domme女主人 — a dominant woman. I told her I was simply a bad submissive顺从 — willing to obey and turned her off to something she clearly loves and enjoys having in her life.

My question to you is do you have any advice for me? Is there anything more you think I can do for myself and Caren to continue to rebuild our bond? I honestly don't care about the bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained or kinky stuff right now. I simply want to regain Caren's trust and love and be there for her in a loving, nurturing way. She's the love of my life and I would do ANYTHING for Her. And for me, that's true submission. Thanks again for writing such an insightful, inspiring book. It truly opened my eyes.

A. I think you’re going about things in the correct way with the proper mindset. You made a mistake, a big mistake, but you’re showing sincerity in wanting to rectify your mistake. If you are truthful when you say you are dedicated to serving Caren and are willing to do anything to gain her trust, then your actions will speak louder than any words, be those words from you or be those words from my book. It is up to you to prove to Caren that you are sincere when you say that female domination from here on out be about you serving her how she wants to be served, and not about your fantasies.