Q&A Forum - August 2010 ("Searching for Wanda" edition)

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Today, high definition verity videos of the most extreme acts of male masochism and female sadism are available at the click of a mouse. We see endless evidence of legions of female sadists acting as if they have no regard for “permanent damage” (e.g. Cruella, Cruel Amazons, English Mansion, OWK, etc.) Savage whippings turn buttocks to bloody hamburger, spiked stilettos细高跟 — a very thin high heel and spurs savage soft skin and scrotums阴囊 — the sac that holds the testicles with the full adult gravity of the mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner, testicles are kicked with pendulumming force again and again, bringing our darkest daydreams to light on the screen. Not to mention the video game-like insanity of head splitting face kicks, neck stomping, flying drop kicks and the like in some Asian products. There certainly seems to be some serious “permanent damage” going on, consensual or not.

I appreciate that in your column when questions of limits and boundaries arise you advise caution and restraint, as your guru role dictates. However, there is almost no real documentation of actual consequences in your writings and throughout the growing expanse of the Velvet Underground.