Q&A Forum - August 2017 (The best of Elise)

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Q. Ms Sutton, my wife and I attended our first BDSM event a few months ago with mixed results. We both were a little uneasy at first. I am not sure what I was expecting. My wife and I are kinky but you would never know it from our appearance or public demeanor. The majority of the attendees were in no way “mainstream”. I was hoping to meet other couples like us at this event but we were a definite minority.

My wife was uncomfortable the entire weekend but I decided since I was there, I should make the best of it. “When in Rome…”, right? Once I relaxed and mingled with people, I found them to be very nice and helpful. My favorite part of the weekend was the play parties at night. My wife liked some of the classes because there was a more laid back atmosphere in the classes and she did learn some important BDSM techniques and safety tips that will come in handy in our private time together. I liked the play parties best even though we didn’t participate but only observed. What I liked best was viewing the dominant women in their fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfits. It was a real orgy for the senses of a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male and I am lucky to be married to a woman who does not mind it when I look at dominant women in fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing attire. If you had a leather, latex乳胶 — shiny rubber used for tight clothes or boot fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing, this was the place to be.

We made the best of the weekend and took back home with us a real BDSM education. I know I will never be able to get my wife to attend another such event but I think we are the better for having gone.