Q&A Forum - August 2017 (The best of Elise)

Screen 2 of 42

One observation that my wife made to me was that she noticed that most of the dominant women were attractive and healthy looking whereas most of the submissive顺从 — willing to obey women were overweight. I noticed the same thing but my attention was mostly on the dominant women. My wife came to the conclusion that some of these women were not really submissive顺从 — willing to obey by nature but this was a way they could experience some form of intimacy from a man. My wife is a loyal reader of your site and she was bothered watching dominant males whipping and inflicting consensual pain on overweight women.

I need to mention that not all male dominant/female submissive顺从 — willing to obey couples were like this. I did see some couples that you could tell loved each other and had a good relationship. But from my wife’s perspective, she was most uncomfortable with what she saw from the male dom/female sub顺从者 — a submissive person couples at this event.

I reminded her that everything she saw as far as the BDSM activities (Whippings, Bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained, Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose, S&M) the same activities were occurring with the female dominant/male submissive顺从 — willing to obey couples but she didn’t seem to mind watching a dominant female whip a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. My wife says that is different because a man is stronger than a woman and it seemed more acceptable when the woman was in the dominant role. What are your feelings about this?