Q&A Forum - August/September 2019 (Best of Elise)

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True, your will can be broken so that you lack that mental or emotional strength to resist but this is a form of extreme training. Is that what you want? Wouldn’t you rather obey your wife because you love her and want to yield to her authority? Is the only way you can obey her is by the implementation of extreme measures?

Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play can be an effective training tool without being extreme. Your wife could use humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play to stimulate your submissive顺从 — willing to obey triggers in a way that motivates you to serve her in a fun and fulfilling manner. Your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature obviously desires humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play and thus it would have a positive effect on your desire to serve. It could be a powerful training and motivational tool to get you off of your butt when given an order by putting you in the proper frame of mind. But that is far different than extreme humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play where your will is broken and you obey out of an unhealthy fear or an unhealthy level of brokenness. The story you read might have been true and it excited you because it stimulated your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. But that does not mean you would enjoy it if your fantasy were to become a reality.