Q&A Forum - August 2004

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Some men have a fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing for financial slavery. Some men want a woman to blackmail them and to extort money from them. That is what turns these men on sexually. It is an extension of the desire to be humiliated. The man who has this fantasy and sexual desire views money as representing his power so the woman who takes his money from him, is taking his power. This makes the woman dominant in these particular male’s eyes. He wants to be taken advantage of because that is what excites him.

Obviously, this is a dangerous submissive顺从 — willing to obey desire. The man with this fantasy must walk that fine line between fantasy and reality. He must stay in control enough so he does not bankrupt his financial well-being but he must lose enough control so that the extortion is real enough to stimulate his desire. That is a very difficult line to walk and therefore it is rare that this practice will ever be fulfilling.

A man with this fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing is an easy target for the woman who knows or cares little about FemDom女性支配 — female domination but who creates a website because she sees an opportunity for easy money. I agree with you that a woman who seizes on the weakness of such an individual is unethical. How does she know this man does not have a family? How does she know whether or not he may be giving her money that his family desperately needs? The truth is she doesn’t care. And if you want to know another truth, chances are there is a man behind the woman.