Q&A Forum - August 2004

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It is rather common for a man to surf the web and see all of these Adult sites and he thinks to himself, I could make money doing this! So he designs a website, takes pictures of his wife or girlfriend in sexy poses and he writes the site as if she is the one doing the exploitation. She is probably a willing partner and she may or may not answer the e-mail and she may talk to a man over the phone if he sends her regular donations, but the majority of the fantasy being sold is more often than not, the results of a man using his girlfriend for financial gain.

This happens in the world of Pro Doms as well. Most Pro Doms are sincere women who love what they do but there are some Pro Doms who are only doing domination sessions because their husband or boyfriend talked them into it as a way to make money. The editors of DDI magazine did an interesting article about this side of the Pro Dom industry and it is a sad reality. There are women who’s hearts are not into dominating men but they have been talked into this career choice by a man who sees dollar signs. These Pro Doms usually do not last long because only a true dominant woman who enjoys D&S will be successful over the long haul. That is why I encourage men to find a reputable Dom who is the real deal when seeking professional domination. An attractive woman who’s heart is not into it will never satisfy the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male.