Q&A Forum - August 2004

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The same applies to financial slavery. If a man has this desire and it is a strong desire that he feels he must explore, he needs to find a trustworthy woman. It would be best to have an actual relationship where the woman can control his finances. That way she will be looking out for his best interests because she has a relationship with him and his financial status will ultimately benefit her. If such a relationship is not possible, I would suggest that man find a reputable Pro Dom whom he feels comfortable with. I would strongly recommend that he have in-person sessions with her on a regular basis because if a woman interacts with a man, she will see that he is a real person with real needs and real feelings. The financial slavery scenario can be incorporated into other forms of D&S and this will protect the man if the Dom is ethical and trustworthy. That knowledge will only come over time and with frequent interaction.