Q&A Forum - August 2004

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To blindly send a complete stranger money over the Internet because of some pictures on a website is absolute foolishness. Ultimately the blame does not belong to those who create such sites or such services but it belongs to the man who is stupid enough to give away his hard earned money. If he can afford it, then that is his decision. But if he cannot, then he needs to take hold of himself and he needs to turn his finances totally over to the woman in his life (preferably his wife) so she can save him from himself. As is the case with many D&S activities, there comes a point where fantasy must surrender to reality. Submissive顺从 — willing to obey fulfillment will only come from loving female authority. The woman should control the finances but it must be within the realm of a loving, caring relationship.

Q. Ms. Sutton: With all the discussions and angst about how dommes女主人 — a dominant woman and subs顺从者 — a submissive person can find each other, I was wondering if there was something more you could do to help grease the social wheels. Could you suggest some code or catch phrase that a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male could drop into casual conversation with a woman to signal that he is an acolyte of your teachings? Similarly, a code or catch phrase for a dominant woman in that situation?