Q&A Forum - August 2004

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Q. Dear Ms Sutton, (sorry if my english is poor but I'm from Finland) I have a question about humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose. I just found out that my wife has been using a hidden camera in our bedroom and she has taped sessions where she's punishing or humiliating me. When I asked her about those films she answered: "they are in case you don't obey me. I'll show them to my girlfriends".

When I asked her if she had already shown some of the sessions to her friends she said it's not really any of my business. I really don't want them to see me masturbate or confessing my male inferiority etc.! In one filmed session my wife forces me to put my penis阴茎 — the male sex organ inside her shoe and "have sex" with it on the floor while she spanks me. It's very humiliating! They are kind of personal things to me.

I don't think she was totally honest when she said they are in case I won't obey her. Why wound she hide them from me and tell me about them only after I had found them? Why hasn't she used them as a punishment earlier? I think she's been sharing them with her friends and I find that very humiliating.

What are my rights as a man in this kind of situation from the perspective of Female Superiority?