Q&A Forum - August 2004

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Who would she share these with? Are her girlfriends in the lifestyle? If so, I would think you would have no problem if they knew since they participate in similar activities with their husbands and boyfriends. I would think such humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose to other dominant women would excite you. If they are not in the lifestyle, do you really think your wife would show such tapes to her vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink girlfriends? That might “out” you but it will also “out” your wife since she is also in these taped sessions. I doubt that your wife would risk her own embarrassment by showing such tapes to her vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink friends.

I for one do not think it is wise to record your D&S sessions because you never know who might stumble across them and use them against you. If a couple tapes a session and watches it at a later time for their own pleasure but then deletes the tape immediately, that is perfectly understandable. But to build a library of your own D&S sessions is rather foolish. These sessions should be private and should remain private. Again, if you are into exhibitionism and want to view yourself on tape, that is fine as long as you destroy the evidence after the viewing. What if you both were in an accident and your family members discovered these tapes while searching for legal and financial documents? How embarrassing and how could you ever face them again after you recovered from your accident or illness? People should think about this stuff and use common sense.