Q&A Forum - August 2004

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Yes, a husband should ache for his wife’s touch and the wife should want him to ache for her touch because that way he never takes her for granted. It has nothing to do about one partner loving the other partner more. It is all about communication, romance and a consensual sexuality and lifestyle. All the regular emotions and displays of affection that exists within a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationship can exist within a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship. In fact, within a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship, the trust and openness usually runs deeper which causes a more intimate relationship.

If such D&S activities as orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial and enforced male chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm are present within a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage, it is because such a lifestyle is mutually fulfilling for both the dominant wife and the submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband. Done properly and done with the right motivation, these activities are practiced in order to enhance the marriage and to take it to a different level of intimacy. Such practices are usually embarked upon because the passion has diminished and the couple is looking to re-ignite that passion or they desire to experience a deeper level of passion. D&S is a sexuality of the mind and it is an intense sexuality. The more intense, the potential for greater passion and a greater sex life.