Q&A Forum - August 2004

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The man who aches for his wife’s attention is not denied that attention. You misunderstand this concept. Female domination is the combination of love and punishment. It is nurturing and discipline. The combination of these forces is what brings fulfillment within the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. Only the denied man can appreciate the value of that which he is denied and thus the experience (when allowed) becomes so much more special and intense. A woman does not deny a man to be cruel (although some men want the woman to be cruel at times) but rather a woman denies a man because it invites passion and passion builds intimacy.

Denial is also about control. A woman in control of the sex life is exciting to both the dominant woman and the submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. Excitement breed’s arousal and arousal leads to sex and sex builds intimacy, even when excluding the male orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. Sex prior to orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax is foreplay. Within some FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriages, foreplay lasts a month or longer for some men but it is still sex and it breeds more passion and thus more intimacy.