Q&A Forum - August 2004

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Yes, some D&S play does involve the woman telling her partner that he is worthless, weak, pathetic, etc but she does this because it excites him and triggers his submissive顺从 — willing to obey energy. This in turns triggers her dominant energy and passion is ignited. Such play is discovered through much play and such a discovery is then incorporated into a lifestyle only when the dominant woman views it as being a positive experience. It is not abuse but rather a mutually fulfilling lifestyle. No woman would embark on such an intense lifestyle unless her partner responded to it favorably. A non-consensual D&S marriage would be destined for failure. Far more abuse occurs within so-called traditional marriages because these relationships lack the openness, trust, passion and intimacy of most FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriages.

Finally, I am sorry if you have experienced some lonely times in your life and these experiences have made you skeptical of women with power. Your comments on why men masturbate reflect your personal experiences. The truth is that most men do not masturbate because they are lonely. Men masturbate habitually because they think about sex more than they would like to admit. Combine a preoccupation with sex along with an undisciplined nature and you have the formula of habitual masturbation. Most men are undisciplined and most men are preoccupied with sex.