Q&A Forum - December 2008 (Best of Elise)

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You need to tell your husband that it hurts to talk about the past and that you forbid it. Then tell him that you are willing to discuss cuckolding as long as he does not relate it to the past. It can be a fantasy or a serious exploration but it must be fresh and new based on where the two of you are at in your current FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage. It has nothing to do with your past. If he cannot separate the two, or if you cannot separate the two, then you need to drop all talk of cuckolding. But if you can separate the two and if you both enjoy the thought of a cuckolding scenario, then you can be free to discuss it and include it within your play sessions. Whether it ever leaves the fantasy stage and becomes a reality will be your decision. Do not allow him to pressure you. It is perfectly Ok to discuss it and explore it within a fantasy context but it must not become a reality unless you, as the dominant woman, are at peace with the idea and feel it would enhance your FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage. Again, it has nothing to do with your past and should not be related to your past. All FemDom女性支配 — female domination activities must be based on what is going on in your current relationship. Take care.