Q&A Forum - December 2016 (The best of Elise)

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Why did he find brown eye brunettes to be dominant? His mother was a brunette with big brown eyes. In fact, as we discussed this, it dawned on him that this woman looked a lot like his mother when she was in her thirties. Psychologically, he equated his mother with being a dominant woman but he didn’t know that until he met this woman who reminded him of his mother. The Pro Dom with black hair and brown eyes represented loving female authority to him. That was his circumstance based on his unique nature. Like I said, there are so many variables that can cause a man to view certain women as being more dominant simply by their outward appearance.

Of course, all of this is superficial. I believe that it is ultimately a woman’s dominant attitude that will touch the core of a man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature but men are visually oriented so often it is the outer characteristics of a woman that initially stir a man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. That is why fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfits are an important aspect of the female domination lifestyle, especially in the early stages. Men are visually oriented and just as a man might be drawn to a woman wearing leather, another man might be drawn to a woman simply because she is a brunette with brown eyes, and another man might be drawn to a woman simply because she is Asian or African American or Caucasian. Each man is unique with a unique nature and that is why beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.