The Disciplined Life: Questions about Discipline, Spankings and Corporal Punishment

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Once you get good with a bullwhip, it can be a lot of fun. Like you said, you can wrap it around the submissive顺从 — willing to obey's body and even wrap it around his genitals if you are really good. The sound of the bullwhip is wild and can send the submissive顺从 — willing to obey into subspace. The sight of a woman holding a bullwhip and taking some practice shots before she focuses on her victim, will send a submissive顺从 — willing to obey off the charts in his mind from the imagery combined with that cracking sound. You do not need to strike him that hard to scare him because the sound and the imagery will have him psyched. The bullwhip can leave various marks depending on the force of the snap of your wrist and as with any whip, the severity of the discipline is a combination of the implement and the force behind the implement. The bullwhip requires skill but any woman can master it with enough practice.

Q. Dear Elise, Thank you for the great web site. I look forward to the updates each month on both the Q&A and the "Real Life Experiences." Recently I have my own question. I know I have long had submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires, but I am not sure if I am really as submissive顺从 — willing to obey. I have a girlfriend who lives a long distance from me. We e-mail a lot, speak on the phone and we visit when we can. She knows of my desires, and I have shared a lot with her.