The Disciplined Life: Questions about Discipline, Spankings and Corporal Punishment

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She seems to be happy to oblige me in taking the queenly role, punishing me when she sees fit. Much of this has been in cyber space. I have fantasies about her tying me up, spanking me, making me wear a chastity belt贞操带 — a locked garment that blocks sex and being dominant in bed, which she knows about. She seems to have really taken to the punishment part! The last time she came in for a visit she owed me a punishment for an offence that I had done. I bought for her a variety of spanking implements to make her task easier. One of them being a leather spanker.

Well I have to tell you there was nothing erotic about the spanking I received. It really hurt, which of course I deserved. But at the same time I lost my urge to have sex after that. It just hurt to darn much. And after she left, I felt a lot less positive about the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role for quite a while and was really questioning it. Do you have any idea why the drop off in the libido? Can it be that I am really not submissive顺从 — willing to obey after all, or maybe my girlfriend didn't add enough eroticism to the event to keep me on the edge?

I think she really likes this ability to punish me when I displease her, and if we continue along this path longer, she probably won't want to give it up. I wonder if you have any insights as to why this change occurred in my mood after I apparently got what I had wanted. Thank you for your time.