Q&A Forum - February 2007

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Q. Elise, what would be your recommendation for a woman who has lost most of her passion for the femdom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle? My husband and I have been living a femdom女性支配 — female domination marriage for five years and it has been great. I love what this way of life has done for our marriage.

We were on the brink of divorce prior to him sharing this lifestyle with me. I was nervous at first but the B&D and S&M in the bedroom really added zest to our sex life. It was all so new and fresh and exciting. However, over time we have both lost some interest, mostly me. Now when I decide to have a discipline session with my husband, I have to really motivate myself and it feels more like work than sex.

I think some of this has to do with my body image. I have put on some weight over the last two or three years and none of my sexy leather outfits fit me any more. I should buy some new outfits but I keep telling myself that I am going to lose the weight and I will be able to fit back into my leather pants and my leather corset束腰 — a stiff garment that squeezes the waist and my leather one piece catsuit连体紧身衣 — a tight suit that covers the whole body.

We did your procedures about four years ago and they were great. I try to read your site each month and I just read your new book and I feel that old stirring within but I am having trouble motivating myself. We need this as my husband has slipped and he is not as obedient as he was when we were at the pinnacle of our femdom女性支配 — female domination marriage. Any suggestions?