Q&A Forum - February 2007

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Therefore, think back to what D&S activities would fuel his passion. Was it your leather outfits? Maybe you can’t fit into your leather pants but I bet you can still wear those sexy leather boots (if you have a pair). Maybe you need to invest in a pair. Or maybe it was not the outfit but a certain activity that ignited passion between the two of you.

If you both enjoyed my procedures (which are available in each issue of Predominant) perhaps you can go back and do them again. Four years was a long enough time ago that they will be fresh and exciting again. If nothing else, I am sure they will bring back memories of which D&S activities ignited that passion.

Another way to reignite passion is to take a vacation together. Get away, just the two of you and fall back in love with each other. Take a vacation that is not full of activities and sight-seeing. Take a vacation where the two of you will have lots of time to be alone in your hotel room where you can play. Get a room with a big tub so he can give you a candle lit bubble bath. Bring some of your D&S toys with you, like your strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness and maybe a whip or a paddle. It could be that a change of scenery and the removal of the stress of life can reignite that passion.