Q&A Forum - February 2007

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If a vacation is not feasible right now, do something romantic at home. You can do the bubble bath at home. Another idea, since you enjoyed my book, underline the stories and the passages that you find to be arousing and have him do the same (using a different color highlighter) and the next time you discipline him, read those passages to him while he is bound. Read those passages in-between each loving blow from your whip or paddle. (This idea was mentioned in my first book when a couple, Crystal and John, shared how they did this with the book “Venus in Furs”).

There are many ways you can reignite the passion. And once that passion is reignited, build upon it by giving your D&S sessions a high priority in your life.