Q&A Forum - February 2008 (The best of Elise)

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That doesn’t mean you still can’t make suggestions to her if you come up with a thought that might solve your problem and still satisfy her control over you. Perhaps a different chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device or changing up chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm devices periodically will help you from a mental and emotional standpoint. Usually the best cure for what ails you is time. The longer you wear a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device, the more accustomed you will become with it and thus the more comfortable you will become.

It sounds to me like a lot of your struggles are more mental than physical and if you allow those mental struggles to work for you, you will find all of this to be beneficial. The next time fear comes across your mind that a co-worker or a friend at the health club might discover you are wearing the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device, don’t dwell on the negative but think about how your wife is dominating you, even when she is not there. Think how she is controlling you and has ownership of not only your cock阴茎 — the penis and balls, but your mind. By dwelling on these pleasant thoughts, you just may slip into subspace or at the very least, a smile may begin to cover your face. Best wishes.

Q. Elise, my wife does act out my Femdom女性支配 — female domination fantasies and become a dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman when I ask her to, however she feels she only does this just to please me, thus feels blackmailed in submitting to my sexual needs. When she is dressed in her various Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner costumes she looks stunning and acts out the role in such a pro way.