Q&A Forum - February 2017

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Q. Ms. Sutton, my Wife and I have recently started our journey into D/s and have both found it very rewarding. However, my Wife wants to feel romanced. I have not been able to think of a way to romance her without both of us feeling like I am taking control. This problem flares up every so often and I would like to be able to do something about it, but I'm at a loss. Do you have any ideas or suggestions how I can be romantic without taking control from my wife?

A. This lifestyle should enhance romance, not take away from it. Perhaps she needs to deny you orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax more often so you will keep your thoughts on her when she is not dominating you. Romance is the expression of one's love toward another. Do I have any ideas?

Write her poetry when she is not with you and allow your submissive顺从 — willing to obey feelings toward her to be channeled from your mind to your hand as you write (or key) your heart felt feelings for her. Then when she is in your presence, get on your knees and recite your poetry to her.

Buy her gifts, flowers, or balloons and present them to her. If she dominates you some night, you should be enthralled with her the next day and you should go out of your way to express your gratitude by surprising her with a gift.