Question and Answer Forum - Page 10

Screen 43 of 46

What is more, she must give her husband such help in his task of serving her by submitting in this way to his needs 'in everything,' that is pervasively, in all everyday aspects of their relationship together, not just within the bedroom. However, 'everything' includes the bedroom, where it remains the husband's sexual responsibility to please his wife as a priority, as he loves his own body. Thus we see a wife should submit to her husband in the same way as a mother, she submits to the needs and demands of her children, that is by helping them grow and mature into right living adults, by her encouragement and at times, by administering much needed firm discipline for their own good. Now some men will look to their wives only for loving support and encouragement in a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink marriage. That is quite Biblical, but it is also fully consistent with scripture and, I would have thought more likely to achieve the outcome that a Christian husband desires, for a man to ask his wife to submit to his need for help in his mission to serve her, by treating him as her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience in a female dominant relationship. All such partnerships should be safe, sane and consensual and thus in a real sense consistent with the husband's instructions as the 'head' of the wife.