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Many a Christian man will find it much easier to fulfil his loving duties of service to his wife, if his wife complies with his desire and request to be punished, perhaps even quite physically severely, when he has failed to please her. Furthermore, occasionally a wise and loving wife will give her husband an unprovoked painful reminder of her authority, to reinforce his submission to her, that is just to keep him good! Some men will find a written slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience contract provides a helpful basis for their duty of loving service to their wives. The fact that both parties may gain pleasure from this relationship in which the man is supported by his wife in his duty to love her as he loves his own body is surely a God given blessing. It shows that staying within the intended relationship between man and woman in marriage is satisfying and it can strengthen a God blessed marriage.
I wish more wives would see it more explicitly as her Christian duty to make sure her husband fully complies with his responsibility to serve and please her by making him more genuinely her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. It would make it easier for him to love, honour and obey her in the same way as he treats his own body, forcing it to keep fit, avoiding tobacco and alcohol, for example, in order to be best prepared for service to his wife.